The changing face of veteran families

But many of the families we support, and what they need from us, have changed a great deal.

Many veterans who served in Afghanistan and other recent operations are now in their thirties, forties and fifties. With their families, they’re raising children and managing their household, often whilst dealing with the long-term effects of service.

Over the past year, we’ve seen sustained growth in demand, including a two-month period in which more than 2,000 beneficiaries were supported by our Community Services team. 

The needs of veteran families are growing, increasing in complexity, and they are showing up earlier and lasting longer. The Australian Institute of Health and Welfare notes that service can make it harder to build social connections outside the military, expose members to trauma, and separate families during deployments.

“When a veteran is living with the physical or psychological impacts of service, family members often take on significant caregiving responsibilities,” says Melbourne Legacy Case Manager, Michelle. “That can place considerable pressure on the household, particularly if a partner has to reduce their work hours or leave employment altogether.”

Rising living costs add to the strain, as do legal matters and other complex pressures.

“We’re seeing more families come to us when they’re already in crisis,” Michelle says.

The need is growing in complexity as well as number. More families are seeking financial counselling, specialised assessments, education assistance, technology access and long-term wellbeing support.

Our model is long-term and relationship-based. Support isn’t one-off or transactional: it is built on trusted connections that adapt as a family’s needs change.

Today, our Community Services team can provide:

• Financial assistance and crisis relief, including a Financial Literacy program delivered with Bravery Trust’s specialist financial counsellors.
• Education support and tutoring for the children of veterans, through targeted funding and tailored development opportunities.
• Counselling referrals and wellbeing support, linking families with others who understand their experience.
• Youth development, including structured, professionally supervised youth camps that build friendships, confidence and leadership.
• Navigation through complex systems, with expert guidance and advocacy to help families understand DVA processes and access what they are entitled to.

As Remembrance Day approaches, Legacy is preparing for growing demand and for families who will need us earlier and for longer.

A gift today helps ensure more families receive support earlier, stay connected through uncertainty, and build the confidence and resilience they need for the future.